What You Focus On Matters!!

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 Not everything that calls for my attention deserves my focus. Because attention is like fuel: What you feed → grows What you ignore → weakens There will always be something trying to pull at your attention. Noise. Thoughts. Pain. Feelings. Responsibilities.  Even good things can become distractions when they take you away from what truly matters. But I’m learning this: peace is protected by focus. When I don’t guard my focus, everything gets access to me. Every thought gets entertained. Every feeling gets a reaction. Every disturbance becomes a direction. And before I know it, I’m pulled away from the very place God was trying to keep me grounded. So now, I choose differently. I guard my focus like something valuable — because it is. I don’t give my attention to everything that calls for it. I don’t sit with thoughts that drain me. I don’t magnify what weakens me. Instead, I return — again and again — to what centers me: God’s Word, peace, purpose, truth. Beca...

Having a Positive Attitude while living with Chronic Illness

 Easier said than Done!! Not an easy thing to do, especially when dealing with our emotions. Any negative feeling that causes us to become tense or stressed out, sad, depressed, etc., can affect our illness. Have you ever been uncomfortable in your own body? Many chronic illness warriors don't even remember what it feels like to be pain free. This is why it is imperative to see the positive in all things. It may require you updating your circle to one more suitable to the person you have become, to only include those that enhance your life or give back to you so you are not being drained. Developing a closer relationship with the Most High has helped me tremendously to recover in every aspect, that is my source. Something else to consider when attempting to see the good in life is music, inspirational music specifically is what helped me to stay optimistic. Music can be very therapeutic, soothing, relaxing, all depending on your choice of music. On inclement weather days, self care, and lots of self love should be the objective, I don't know about you but on bad weather days my pain intensified and was unbearable. Spending time doing things that made me feel good helped, like watching my favorite movie, getting a massage, taking a long hot shower with my favorite scented soap, down to  taking the time to change the way I see things, and processing situations from the past as learning experiences. Helping others also rewards you with a great feelings of happiness and accomplishment, that may be something that will work for you. Overall, having an optimistic mindset is a beneficial factor on your journey to wellness. Do what works for you!!

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