Learning to Feel Safe, Steady, & Strong Again

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Life has a way of stretching us thin. Between daily responsibilities, past hurts, and ongoing pressures, many of us find ourselves at the point of no capacity — running on empty, unable to handle even the smallest stresses. But here’s the truth: capacity can be rebuilt. Just like a muscle, with care, practice, and consistency, your emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual reserves can grow stronger. This is your Capacity Recovery Roadmap — a simple four-phase journey to help you go from survival mode to a life that feels steady, spacious, and strong. This is the entry point to increasing capacity. You can’t strengthen what you don’t first acknowledge. Why it matters: If you don’t know when you’re nearing overload, you’ll push past it, leading to shutdown or burnout. How to practice: Daily check-in: Pause 2–3 times a day and ask: What’s draining me right now? What’s feeding me? Energy rating: Score yourself 1–10 in emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual energy. Th...

Having a Positive Attitude while living with Chronic Illness

 Easier said than Done!! Not an easy thing to do, especially when dealing with our emotions. Any negative feeling that causes us to become tense or stressed out, sad, depressed, etc., can affect our illness. Have you ever been uncomfortable in your own body? Many chronic illness warriors don't even remember what it feels like to be pain free. This is why it is imperative to see the positive in all things. It may require you updating your circle to one more suitable to the person you have become, to only include those that enhance your life or give back to you so you are not being drained. Developing a closer relationship with the Most High has helped me tremendously to recover in every aspect, that is my source. Something else to consider when attempting to see the good in life is music, inspirational music specifically is what helped me to stay optimistic. Music can be very therapeutic, soothing, relaxing, all depending on your choice of music. On inclement weather days, self care, and lots of self love should be the objective, I don't know about you but on bad weather days my pain intensified and was unbearable. Spending time doing things that made me feel good helped, like watching my favorite movie, getting a massage, taking a long hot shower with my favorite scented soap, down to  taking the time to change the way I see things, and processing situations from the past as learning experiences. Helping others also rewards you with a great feelings of happiness and accomplishment, that may be something that will work for you. Overall, having an optimistic mindset is a beneficial factor on your journey to wellness. Do what works for you!!

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