Holding It In Makes You Sick: The Hidden Cost

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  Many of us grow up learning to “be strong,” “push through,” or “keep it together.” But what we rarely talk about is the weight that comes with carrying emotions we never release. Anger. Bitterness. Jealousy. Resentment. Unforgiveness. Hidden hurt. Silent disappointment. These emotions don’t stay neatly tucked away in the heart. The body feels them. The mind reacts to them. And the soul holds them like unspoken stories. The Body Keeps the Score When we bottle up hard emotions, the body shifts into a subtle form of stress response. Even if we smile on the outside, our inside is tightening, guarding, bracing. Over time, suppressed emotions can contribute to: Chronic tension Anxiety and irritability Fatigue and sleep issues High blood pressure Weakened immune system Digestive issues Emotional numbness or shutdown What stays unspoken becomes stored. And what stays stored eventually surfaces — often through the body. Spiritual Truth: God Never Designed Us to...

The Power of a Daily Self-Check: A Simple Guide to Self-Awareness and Compassion

 


In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to get caught up in daily responsibilities without taking a moment to check in with yourself. However, practicing a daily self-check can be a game-changer for your overall well-being. By simply asking yourself, "How am I feeling today?" and "What do I need?" you can cultivate self-awareness, manage stress, and extend more compassion to others.

Why Daily Self-Checks Matter

Self-check-ins create a habit of mindfulness, helping you stay in tune with your emotions, thoughts, and physical well-being. Some key benefits include:

  • Emotional Regulation: Recognizing your emotions allows you to process them in a healthy way rather than suppressing them.
  • Reduced Stress and Anxiety: When you are aware of what’s causing distress, you can take proactive steps to manage it.
  • Improved Decision-Making: Understanding your needs helps you make choices that align with your well-being.
  • Stronger Relationships: When you are in touch with your emotions, you become more empathetic and understanding toward others.

How to Perform a Daily Self-Check

A daily self-check doesn’t have to be complicated. Take a few minutes each morning or evening to reflect on the following questions:

  1. How am I feeling today? – Acknowledge your emotions without judgment. Are you feeling happy, stressed, anxious, or at peace?
  2. What do I need? – Identify what would support your well-being. It could be rest, movement, quiet time, or connection with a loved one.
  3. What’s taking up space in my mind? – Recognize any lingering thoughts or stressors and determine if they need action or release.
  4. Have I honored my boundaries today? – Reflect on whether you’ve upheld your personal limits to protect your peace.

The Ripple Effect of Self-Awareness

When you make self-checks a habit, you naturally develop more patience, understanding, and compassion for others. By acknowledging your own emotions and needs, you become better equipped to support those around you.

Taking care of yourself is not selfish; it’s essential. By prioritizing your well-being, you can show up as your best self for yourself and others. Start today—pause, reflect, and give yourself the care you deserve.

#SelfCare #MentalHealthAwareness #Mindfulness

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