Reciprocity Matters: Learning to Steward What God Has Given Me

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  There was a time in my life when I gave freely without much thought about whether that giving was being reciprocated. I showed up for people. I listened. I encouraged. I supported. I poured into friendships and relationships because that was simply who I was. But over time, I began to notice a pattern. I was often the one reaching out. I was often the one checking in. I was often the one giving, encouraging, helping, and investing. While there is nothing wrong with being generous, I eventually realized that constantly pouring without being replenished comes at a cost. Reciprocity matters. Healthy relationships are not about keeping score. They are not transactional. They are built on mutual care, respect, and investment. Both people contribute. Both people make an effort. Both people value the relationship enough to nurture it. When only one person is invested, the relationship becomes unbalanced. For many years, I continued giving even when I received very little in return. Part...

You Forgot Your Self-Worth

 

 


When you don't know your worth,
You wear your soul like open skin—
Easy to bruise, easy to break,
A quiet invitation to be mishandled.

You let them write their names in your silence,
Let their lies become your language,
And call it love.
You become a canvas for gaslighting—
Their truths painted over yours
Until you're unsure of what you saw,
What you felt,
What you were even trying to say.

You tolerate the sharp edge of disrespect,
Calling it patience.
You bend, and bend,
Until even your shadow forgets how to stand.

Confidence trickles out
Like a leaking faucet—
Drip by drip,
Trust in self washes away
In the flood of "maybe they're right."

But then—
A moment of stillness.
A sacred pause.
And you begin to see.

You sift through the ruins,
One memory at a time.
You trace your steps—not to blame,
But to reclaim.

You take responsibility,
Not for the wounds they gave,
But for the doors you left unlocked.
You see where you shrank,
Where you said “yes” when your soul screamed “no.”
Where you traded your truth for their comfort.

And in that raw, honest mirror,
You finally see her/him—
The version of you
That deserved more all along.

Now, you rise—not bitter,
But better.
Wiser.
And rooted in awareness.

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