Holding It In Makes You Sick: The Hidden Cost

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  Many of us grow up learning to “be strong,” “push through,” or “keep it together.” But what we rarely talk about is the weight that comes with carrying emotions we never release. Anger. Bitterness. Jealousy. Resentment. Unforgiveness. Hidden hurt. Silent disappointment. These emotions don’t stay neatly tucked away in the heart. The body feels them. The mind reacts to them. And the soul holds them like unspoken stories. The Body Keeps the Score When we bottle up hard emotions, the body shifts into a subtle form of stress response. Even if we smile on the outside, our inside is tightening, guarding, bracing. Over time, suppressed emotions can contribute to: Chronic tension Anxiety and irritability Fatigue and sleep issues High blood pressure Weakened immune system Digestive issues Emotional numbness or shutdown What stays unspoken becomes stored. And what stays stored eventually surfaces — often through the body. Spiritual Truth: God Never Designed Us to...

Peeling Back the Layers: The Courage to Heal and Help Others

 True healing doesn’t come from avoiding the pain—it comes from facing it. For a person to begin their healing journey, they must be willing to peel back each layer of their experience. That means taking a raw, honest look at the memories that shaped us and accepting them—not as definitions of who we are, but as experiences that contributed to our growth.

Healing is not weakness. It’s power. It’s the ability to say, “That happened to me, but it doesn’t define me.” It’s recognizing that even if the pain returns in a different form, we now have the strength, wisdom, and resilience to handle it differently.

The most beautiful part? We can take the very things that hurt us and use them to help someone else heal. Whether through writing, speaking, creating, or simply showing up for someone—our stories have value. Your healing is not just for you. It’s for the next person who needs hope.

Healing really does require a deep willingness to face ourselves—layer by layer—with honesty and compassion. The idea that our painful experiences can be transformed into something meaningful for others is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. When we embrace our growth and wisdom, we become walking testimonies that healing is not only possible, but purposeful.

Healing from past trauma, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or PTSD, and cultivating emotional resilience can be a long and challenging journey, but there are effective coping strategies that do not rely on substances. Here are some approaches that can support emotional healing and well-being:

Spiritual Practices: Prayer or Spiritual Meditation

Mindfulness: Practicing mindfulness helps individuals stay present in the moment

Meditation: can help individuals manage stress, reduce negative thinking, and improve overall emotional regulation

Therapy and Counseling: It helps develop healthier coping mechanisms, can help process trauma memories and reduce their emotional impact.

Building Emotional Regulation: Deep Breathing Exercises

Journaling and Expressive Writing: a safe space for individuals to express difficult emotions, reflect on their experiences, and process traumatic memories.

Physical Exercise: Exercise releases endorphins, which improve overall mental health.

Social Support and Connection: can provide validation, empathy, and a sense of belonging.

Self-Compassion and Forgiveness: It involves recognizing suffering and responding with care rather than self-criticism.

Creative Expression: can help individuals process emotions, express feelings that may be hard to put into words, and create a sense of accomplishment.

Grounding Techniques: 5-4-3-2-1 Technique, Senses Awareness         

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