Finding the Strength to Speak Up

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  I remember standing outside a beauty store, watching women walk in with determination on their faces. Many were headed in to purchase products to enhance their outer appearance — to look beautiful, polished, and put together. But I wondered: How many of them were like me, falling to pieces inside while trying to cover up the pain? For so long, I did the same thing. I hid my sadness behind makeup, clothes, and a fake smile that said, “I’m good.” On the inside, though, I was breaking. The truth is, in order for us to get the support we need, we often have to get frustrated enough with our situation to finally say something. Silence keeps us stuck, but vulnerability opens the door to healing. It’s not weakness to admit we need help. It’s actually the first act of strength. Scripture reminds us: ๐Ÿ“– “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7 ๐Ÿ“– “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18 ๐Ÿ“– “Therefore con...

Becoming - Time To Practice

 


There’s a sacred space between who you used to be and who you’re becoming. And if you’re walking through it, you know it’s not always easy.

Old habits, mindsets, behaviors — they don’t just disappear because you’ve decided to grow. They show up again. Sometimes louder than ever. Not because you’re weak, but because they’re familiar. They’ve been your default settings for years.

It’s so easy to fall back into what you’ve always done, or seems familiar. But change doesn’t happen by accident. Growth takes awareness and intention. And familiar is not always a good thing.

When you stand firm in your new beliefs, when you remind yourself who you’re becoming — your new mindset becomes the force that breaks the old one.

And like anything new, it takes practice.

Think about when the world first responded to COVID. We knew it was dangerous. We knew people were dying. But even with that knowledge, it took practice to protect ourselves and others — to remember the mask, keep our distance, and be mindful. Awareness had to become a habit.

Healing and personal growth are no different.

Knowing better is only the beginning. Becoming better? That’s a journey, sometimes a battle. Because the new is unfamiliar and new territory, we tend to stick with what we know, even when its not working, the default is the familiar.

Every time you choose your new self over your old self, you’re shifting. You’re becoming.

So be patient with the process. Keep practicing. Keep showing up.

You’re becoming someone whole, intentional, and healed — and that’s worth the effort.

Bible Verse

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.”
— Romans 12:2 (NIV)

 Affirmation

I release old patterns and stand in alignment with who God is calling me to be. I practice my healing daily, and I am becoming whole, free, and renewed.

 

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