The Pause Power - Self-Awareness Matters

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  In life we are pulled in many directions — deadlines, expectations, responsibilities, and the constant hum of “keep going.” For many of us, it feels easier to push through than to step back. But the truth is this: pushing through without pause often causes more harm than good. 🌿 Self-Awareness Is the First Step Self-awareness is more than knowing what you feel — it’s paying attention to the whispers of your mind, body, and spirit. It’s noticing when your shoulders are heavy or tight, when your thoughts feel cluttered, and may even be racing, or when your spirit longs for quiet. Too often, we ignore these signals until we reach a breaking point. Choosing to pause is not weakness. It’s wisdom. A major power move.  It’s you saying, “I hear myself, and I matter enough to listen.” ⏸️ Your Pause May Look Different from Everyone else's. For some, a pause may be ten minutes of deep breathing or sitting in silence. For others, it may mean unplugging for ten days, journaling, o...

Start With Intention

 There comes a point in time when awareness alone is no longer enough. We can recognize what needs to change in our lives, but without intention—real, honest, focused intention—those changes remain just ideas/thoughts.

Intentional living requires us to pay attention. To be honest with ourselves. To slow down long enough to ask: Am I living on purpose or on autopilot?

When we’re not aware and intentional, it’s easy to fall back into old patterns, sometimes even justifying our behavior with past pain or circumstances. But truthfully, even valid reasons can keep us stuck if we’re not willing to take responsibility.

I’ve learned that growth, healing, and transformation don’t happen by accident, there is no magic fix.They’re the result of intentional choices and actions, one day at a time.

Intention calls for accountability. And that kind of accountability is personal. It’s internal. We owe it to ourselves to take inventory of our hearts, habits, and mindsets—then do the hard work of making adjustments. We should at the very least be responsible for our own lives, doing what is necessary for transformation to happen within our hearts and minds.

It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being aligned. About being willing to let go of what no longer serves us so we can walk in the fullness of who we were created to be.

You are not alone in this process. 

But you are responsible for taking the first step. 

I've come to realize that awareness without movement or action is just an observation.
Because awareness leads you to make aligned decisions—this is intention.
It means you’re not just noticing what needs to change, you're choosing to do something about it, even if you take baby steps, its still movement.
This is when transformation begins to sprout.
Because awareness in action is intention.
And intention creates an impact for transformation to occur.

 

Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. - Romans 12:2 (NLT)

 
Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.- James 1:22 (NIV)

 Affirmations:

I move with purpose. My awareness fuels my intention, and my intention transforms my life 

 I take full responsibility for my growth, and I move forward with clarity, faith, and purpose.

I am becoming who I was created to be, one intentional step at a time. 

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