Finding the Strength to Speak Up

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  I remember standing outside a beauty store, watching women walk in with determination on their faces. Many were headed in to purchase products to enhance their outer appearance — to look beautiful, polished, and put together. But I wondered: How many of them were like me, falling to pieces inside while trying to cover up the pain? For so long, I did the same thing. I hid my sadness behind makeup, clothes, and a fake smile that said, “I’m good.” On the inside, though, I was breaking. The truth is, in order for us to get the support we need, we often have to get frustrated enough with our situation to finally say something. Silence keeps us stuck, but vulnerability opens the door to healing. It’s not weakness to admit we need help. It’s actually the first act of strength. Scripture reminds us: 📖 “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7 📖 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18 📖 “Therefore con...

Your Body Is Intellegent - Listen!!

 


 Listen To Your Body Before It Has to Scream

“Our bodies are intelligent. When we ignore their signals, we pay the price — in exhaustion, pain, discomfort, and mental fog.”

✨ The Body Speaks — Are We Listening?

So many of us have been taught to override our body’s cues. We’re conditioned to push through fatigue, ignore tension, downplay discomfort, and stay "strong" even when we feel like we’re falling apart inside.

But your body is wise. It's not betraying you — it's communicating with you. Every ache, every emotional dip, every time you feel drained or disconnected, your body is sounding an alarm.

When we ignore these messages, we don’t just brush past momentary discomfort — we accumulate nervous system debt. And eventually, we crash.

 

I'm learning that when your nervous system is in a constant state of alert, stuck in survival mode (due to trauma, chronic stress, unresolved emotions, or overstimulation), your capacity shrinks. This is often misunderstood. You’re not lazy, unmotivated, or weak — you're operating beyond your bandwidth. You're doing too much literally.

Here’s what an overloaded system can look like:

  • Foggy or racing thoughts

  • Chronic fatigue

  • Emotional reactivity or shutdown

  • Muscle tension, tightness, or pain

  • Insomnia or disrupted sleep

  • Feeling “on edge” or numb

  • Trouble focusing or completing simple tasks

This was me on a daily basis, is your body saying, “Please slow down. I need safety. I need presence. I need care?

Low capacity means your system is trying to protect you — it's regulating your output so you don't burn out completely. But when we judge ourselves for it, we pile on shame and pressure, making recovery even harder.

The truth? You don’t need to do more — you need to restore more.

“Your body is not the enemy. It's the messenger.” Pay attention, stop ignoring your body.

Your body deserves to be heard the first time it speaks. Not when it’s screaming through migraines, panic attacks, or emotional breakdowns.

You can begin right now by closing your eyes, placing your hand on your chest, and asking:

“What is my body trying to tell me today?”

Then give yourself permission to honor that message — with gentleness, and compassion not guilt.

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Start small. Start slow. Let your body relearn what safety, slowness, and self-compassion feel like:

  • Daily breathwork (even just 3–5 minutes)

  • Grounding touch — placing a hand over your heart or belly

  • Gentle stretching or somatic movement

  • Restorative moments — naps, stillness, or quiet walks

  • Creative expression — journaling, music, or art

  • Safe connection — with a trusted friend, therapist, pet, or support group

These aren’t luxuries. They’re life support for an overloaded nervous system.

 

 

 

 

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