Finding the Strength to Speak Up

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  I remember standing outside a beauty store, watching women walk in with determination on their faces. Many were headed in to purchase products to enhance their outer appearance — to look beautiful, polished, and put together. But I wondered: How many of them were like me, falling to pieces inside while trying to cover up the pain? For so long, I did the same thing. I hid my sadness behind makeup, clothes, and a fake smile that said, “I’m good.” On the inside, though, I was breaking. The truth is, in order for us to get the support we need, we often have to get frustrated enough with our situation to finally say something. Silence keeps us stuck, but vulnerability opens the door to healing. It’s not weakness to admit we need help. It’s actually the first act of strength. Scripture reminds us: 📖 “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7 📖 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18 📖 “Therefore con...

When Pain Comes To Disturb

 


Disturb comes from the Latin disturbare, meaning “to throw into disorder.”
It combines dis- (a prefix meaning “apart” or “away”) and turbare (“to agitate,” “to stir up,” or “to trouble”).

So at its root, to disturb means:

“to unsettle, interrupt, or cause disorder in something that was once calm or stable.”

In everyday use, it can mean:

  • To interfere with peace or rest (e.g., “Don’t disturb her while she’s praying.”)

  • To interrupt a natural process (e.g., “Pain disturbs the body’s balance.”)

  • To agitate the mind or emotions (e.g., “That news disturbed me deeply.”)

     

    Disturbance is the state or result of being disturbed — the condition of unrest, agitation, or imbalance that follows an interruption.

    It can refer to:

  • Physical disturbance: shaking, discomfort, or disruption of normal bodily functions

  • Emotional disturbance: inner turmoil, anxiety, distress

  • Spiritual disturbance: loss of peace, confusion, or separation from inner stillness

     

    Pain — whether physical, emotional, or spiritual — is a disturbance because it interrupts the natural flow of peace, presence, and connection.
    It “throws off” the body’s rhythm, the mind’s focus, and the soul’s rest.
    Yet disturbance can also be a signal, not just a disruption — an invitation to pay attention to what needs healing, restoration, or release.

    Pain has a voice — subtle, persistent, and often loud enough to drown out peace.
    For a long time, I let it interrupt my flow, dictate my mood, and shape my days.
    But I’ve learned that the more I talk about it, the more I rehearse it (
    Every time I repeat the story of my pain, I invite it to stay a little longer.) — and the stronger it becomes.

    Now I understand: I must fight intentionally — not through striving, but through stillness, faith, and focus.
    When I refuse to magnify pain with my words, I magnify God instead.
    When I shift my attention from the hurt to the Healer, I begin to recover control over my atmosphere.

     

Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit. — Proverbs 18:21 

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord. — Psalm 19:14

Affirmation:

I choose to feed peace, not pain.
I guard my thoughts and words.
I speak life, healing, and strength.
Pain may try to distract me, but my focus is anchored in God.

 

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