Holding It In Makes You Sick: The Hidden Cost

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  Many of us grow up learning to “be strong,” “push through,” or “keep it together.” But what we rarely talk about is the weight that comes with carrying emotions we never release. Anger. Bitterness. Jealousy. Resentment. Unforgiveness. Hidden hurt. Silent disappointment. These emotions don’t stay neatly tucked away in the heart. The body feels them. The mind reacts to them. And the soul holds them like unspoken stories. The Body Keeps the Score When we bottle up hard emotions, the body shifts into a subtle form of stress response. Even if we smile on the outside, our inside is tightening, guarding, bracing. Over time, suppressed emotions can contribute to: Chronic tension Anxiety and irritability Fatigue and sleep issues High blood pressure Weakened immune system Digestive issues Emotional numbness or shutdown What stays unspoken becomes stored. And what stays stored eventually surfaces — often through the body. Spiritual Truth: God Never Designed Us to...

When Pain Comes To Disturb

 


Disturb comes from the Latin disturbare, meaning “to throw into disorder.”
It combines dis- (a prefix meaning “apart” or “away”) and turbare (“to agitate,” “to stir up,” or “to trouble”).

So at its root, to disturb means:

“to unsettle, interrupt, or cause disorder in something that was once calm or stable.”

In everyday use, it can mean:

  • To interfere with peace or rest (e.g., “Don’t disturb her while she’s praying.”)

  • To interrupt a natural process (e.g., “Pain disturbs the body’s balance.”)

  • To agitate the mind or emotions (e.g., “That news disturbed me deeply.”)

     

    Disturbance is the state or result of being disturbed — the condition of unrest, agitation, or imbalance that follows an interruption.

    It can refer to:

  • Physical disturbance: shaking, discomfort, or disruption of normal bodily functions

  • Emotional disturbance: inner turmoil, anxiety, distress

  • Spiritual disturbance: loss of peace, confusion, or separation from inner stillness

     

    Pain — whether physical, emotional, or spiritual — is a disturbance because it interrupts the natural flow of peace, presence, and connection.
    It “throws off” the body’s rhythm, the mind’s focus, and the soul’s rest.
    Yet disturbance can also be a signal, not just a disruption — an invitation to pay attention to what needs healing, restoration, or release.

    Pain has a voice — subtle, persistent, and often loud enough to drown out peace.
    For a long time, I let it interrupt my flow, dictate my mood, and shape my days.
    But I’ve learned that the more I talk about it, the more I rehearse it (
    Every time I repeat the story of my pain, I invite it to stay a little longer.) — and the stronger it becomes.

    Now I understand: I must fight intentionally — not through striving, but through stillness, faith, and focus.
    When I refuse to magnify pain with my words, I magnify God instead.
    When I shift my attention from the hurt to the Healer, I begin to recover control over my atmosphere.

     

Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit. — Proverbs 18:21 

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord. — Psalm 19:14

Affirmation:

I choose to feed peace, not pain.
I guard my thoughts and words.
I speak life, healing, and strength.
Pain may try to distract me, but my focus is anchored in God.

 

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