Holding It In Makes You Sick: The Hidden Cost

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  Many of us grow up learning to “be strong,” “push through,” or “keep it together.” But what we rarely talk about is the weight that comes with carrying emotions we never release. Anger. Bitterness. Jealousy. Resentment. Unforgiveness. Hidden hurt. Silent disappointment. These emotions don’t stay neatly tucked away in the heart. The body feels them. The mind reacts to them. And the soul holds them like unspoken stories. The Body Keeps the Score When we bottle up hard emotions, the body shifts into a subtle form of stress response. Even if we smile on the outside, our inside is tightening, guarding, bracing. Over time, suppressed emotions can contribute to: Chronic tension Anxiety and irritability Fatigue and sleep issues High blood pressure Weakened immune system Digestive issues Emotional numbness or shutdown What stays unspoken becomes stored. And what stays stored eventually surfaces — often through the body. Spiritual Truth: God Never Designed Us to...

Overstimulation Defined - Are You Overstimulated?

 


This world we live in is full of noise, constant notifications, busy schedules, numerous distractions, and emotional demands, it’s easy to become overstimulated without even realizing it. Overstimulation happens when your mind and body are flooded with more input than they can process — leading to overwhelm, exhaustion, and even anxiety.

What Does Overstimulation Feel Like?

You may find yourself snapping at small things, struggling to concentrate, or suddenly feeling drained for no clear reason. These are the signs that your nervous system is on overload.

Common Signs of Overstimulation:

Feeling easily irritated or overwhelmed

Racing thoughts or trouble focusing

Headaches, muscle tension, or sensitivity to sound/light

A sudden urge to withdraw or “shut down”

Heightened emotions or anxiety

 

What Causes It?

Overstimulation isn’t always about loud noise or crowded spaces. It can also come from:

Too much screen time or social media scrolling
Overpacked schedules
Emotional conversations or heavy topics
Bright lights, strong smells, or loud environments
Feeling “on” all the time without break
 

Simple Ways to Reset:

You don’t have to push through overstimulation. Here are gentle ways to support yourself:

✅ Step away to a quiet space
✅ Hydrate and take slow, deep breaths
✅ Reduce light and noise where you can
✅ Move your body gently (stretching, walking)
✅ Silence unnecessary notifications

A Gentle Reminder:

Overstimulation doesn’t mean you’re weak — it means you’re human.
Your body and mind are asking for rest, not punishment.
Taking a break isn’t quitting; it’s resetting.

“It’s okay to pause. Rest is not weakness — it’s wisdom.”

Remember "Rest is a power move" 

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