How Are You Coping?

Holistic Wellness Matters — Faith, Healing, Creativity, Purpose. I am not presenting myself as an expert, but as someone actively stepping into purpose and growing in real time. My hope is that what I share may encourage, inspire, or support you on your own journey. It is truly my pleasure to walk alongside you and serve as your community assistant in this space.
And because of that, he often tries to serve us a counterfeit—not necessarily a fake person, but someone who is not aligned with what God truly has for us. The imposter might seem like "the one." They may share a few interests, say the right things, or show up at just the right time when we’re vulnerable.
But just because something looks close doesn’t mean it’s God’s best.
Sometimes we miss the subtle cues of being spiritually unequal—like mismatched values, purpose, or discernment. And because we want what we want, our hearts begin to convince our eyes, “This must be it.”
Then a few months later, we’re asking ourselves:
“How did I get here?”
“Why does it feel off now?”
“What did I miss?”
The truth is, many people end up in relationships with someone they were never meant to be with. They got caught up in emotions, loneliness, or even substances like alcohol and drugs. The soul became entangled before the spirit could fully discern.
So here’s the reminder:
✨ Be patient.
💪🏾 Be strong.
👀 Be watchful.
God’s design for your life includes someone who truly aligns with your calling, your healing, your peace, and your purpose. You won’t have to force it, question it, or settle.
Don’t let temporary feelings or false connections replace what God has already prepared for you.
To the One My Heart Feels But Hasn’t Met Yet,
I don’t know your name or your face,
but lately, I’ve felt this quiet knowing…
like your spirit is near,
watching me heal, cheering me on from afar.
I don’t know what you’ve been through —
but I pray you’re healing too.
Maybe you’ve cried silent prayers like I have,
wondering if God still writes love stories,
wondering if someone sees the real you.
If so, let this moment be confirmation:
you’re not alone, and neither am I.
I’m doing the work.
I’m letting go of what wounded me.
I’m trusting God, not rushing Him.
And every tear, every step, every lesson —
I hope it’s preparing me to love you well.
Wherever you are…
I bless your journey.
I pray protection over your heart.
I pray you grow into the man God’s called you to be —
bold, gentle, faithful, whole.
And I’ll be here, becoming the woman who meets you there.
Until our souls align in real time,
I’ll keep becoming.
I’ll keep believing.
And I’ll keep holding space for the day we finally recognize
what Heaven already confirmed.
With grace and patience,
💛 Me
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