Choose Life: Dysfunction Can Be Healed

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  Coming from extreme dysfunction your perspective can be somewhat warped (bent or twisted out of its true shape). Not because there is something wrong with you, but because dysfunction has a way of teaching you things that were never meant to be normal. You learn to survive in environments that require constant adaptation. Over time, those adaptations can begin to feel like your identity. You may mistake chaos for love. You may confuse hypervigilance with wisdom. You may believe that carrying everyone else's burdens is your responsibility. You may think your worth is tied to what you do rather than who you are. When dysfunction is all you've known, it becomes the lens through which you view yourself, others, and the world around you. But it doesn't have to stay that way. Healing begins when you realize that you have a choice. A choice to question what you've always believed. A choice to challenge unhealthy patterns. A choice to stop normalizing what wounded y...

Addicted to Familiar

 

Isn't it strange the way we chase after the very things that keep us bound, whether it's relationship, friendship, a thing we enjoy, a place we like to go, etc. and we pretty much give a side eye to the things that could actually set us free. Almost as if we intentionally seek to re-wound ourselves, returning to pain because its what we know. 
(It could be a old pain, a new pain, change the name or the place its still a pain.)
Deep within us, a thought arises that is strengthened by our choices and we begin to believe that maybe this is what we deserve, that recovery/wholeness or healing is for other people. Needless to say we tend to cling on to the hurt, wrap it around ourselves like that favorite blanket, and call it our own.

I do believe that is the work of the enemy, deception. The enemy will do anything to keep us trapped, manipulating people, and situations, he goes all out to keep us in bondage. It doesn't make sense, why would anyone in their right mind reject the Source of our healing, the One who offers peace, restoration, salvation, new life and more? What other reason is there for us to keep running back to the chains that enslaved us?

We must read the word to know the word so that it can be a lamp to our feet and a light unto our path, it builds faith and reminds us that we are worthy of the love, healing, and life God has promised and already prepared the way for you. Freedom requires courage, together we can uplift, encourage and support each other along the way, so we all make it. 

 

Scripture:
For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.Galatians 5:1

Affirmation:
Today, I choose to walk in the freedom God has given me.

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