Holding It In Makes You Sick: The Hidden Cost

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  Many of us grow up learning to “be strong,” “push through,” or “keep it together.” But what we rarely talk about is the weight that comes with carrying emotions we never release. Anger. Bitterness. Jealousy. Resentment. Unforgiveness. Hidden hurt. Silent disappointment. These emotions don’t stay neatly tucked away in the heart. The body feels them. The mind reacts to them. And the soul holds them like unspoken stories. The Body Keeps the Score When we bottle up hard emotions, the body shifts into a subtle form of stress response. Even if we smile on the outside, our inside is tightening, guarding, bracing. Over time, suppressed emotions can contribute to: Chronic tension Anxiety and irritability Fatigue and sleep issues High blood pressure Weakened immune system Digestive issues Emotional numbness or shutdown What stays unspoken becomes stored. And what stays stored eventually surfaces — often through the body. Spiritual Truth: God Never Designed Us to...

I'm Shifting From Survival Mode to Healing Awareness


I've come to a sacred point in my journey where survival no longer defines me. The fight to simply make it through the day is begining to soften, and my body whispers for something more: healing.

Shifting from survival mode into awareness is not always easy. My mind still wants to keep going, to hustle, to prove. Yet my body — this vessel that has carried me through pain, stress, and storms — is asking for rest. And rest is not weakness. It is not laziness. Rest is holy. Its sacred, even God rested.

Scripture reminds us in Matthew 11:28 that Jesus calls us to lay down our burdens and find rest in Him. That rest is an act of trust — a declaration that we no longer need to carry it all alone. Consider how long you’ve held the weight of responsibility, worry, and past wounds. In this new season of transformation, compassion must replace criticism, and intention must replace survival.

Stand with yourself, not against yourself. Rest without guilt. Move forward with grace. Healing is not just about doing more, but about becoming more aligned with God’s care for you. Trust that as you honor your body, mind, and spirit, He is renewing you day by day. 

 

 Scripture

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 (NIV)

Affirmation

💭 I honor my body with rest, compassion, and intention. I release guilt and embrace the healing process God is guiding me through.

When the body shifts from survival mode into deeper awareness of healing, a new season begins. Paying attention to the body is essential now — honoring rest without guilt, remembering how long you’ve carried it all.

This is a time to embrace compassion toward yourself, to soften into grace, and to stand firmly in intention. Transformation requires both rest and resolve, gentleness and strength. 

I Trust the process — healing is unfolding. ✨

 

 

 Note to My Community

I want to share something from my heart with you. After this week, I will be taking an intentional rest from posting here. My mind and body are asking for more space to heal and recharge, and I want to honor that without guilt.

This is not goodbye — just a pause. I believe that rest is holy, and it allows us to return more whole, more grounded, and more present. Thank you for your patience, understanding, and continued support.

In the meantime, remember: your healing matters, your rest matters, you matter. 💚

I’ll see you soon, refreshed and ready.

With gratitude,
@imattercomm

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