Survival Me Vs. Healing Me

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  Recently, I found myself reflecting on some of the names I've been called throughout my life. Guarded. Standoffish. Quiet. Distant. For years, I accepted those labels as personality traits. I assumed that was simply who I was. But healing has a way of revealing things we couldn't see before. As I've learned more about nervous system regulation, trauma, faith, emotional healing, and self-awareness, I've begun to wonder: What if I wasn't being guarded because it was my personality? What if I was surviving? When survival mode becomes your normal, you don't always recognize it. You learn to stay alert. You learn to protect yourself. You learn to keep parts of yourself hidden because somewhere along the way, vulnerability didn't feel safe. Over time, those protective behaviors can become so familiar that they begin to look like identity. But they aren't always the same thing. The truth is, many of us have spent years operating from protection rather than co...

The Coherent Breathing Method

 


Coherent breathing 

 is slow, rhythmic breathing designed to balance the nervous system, calm the mind, and improve overall well-being.

 Definition

Coherent breathing—also called resonant breathing—involves breathing at a steady rate of about 5 to 6 breaths per minute (roughly inhale for 5–6 seconds and exhale for 5–6 seconds). The goal is to synchronize your breath with your body’s natural rhythms to promote harmony between the sympathetic (fight-or-flight) and parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) branches of the autonomic nervous system.

✨ How It Works

When you slow your breath in this steady rhythm:

  • The vagus nerve is stimulated, enhancing relaxation and heart-rate variability (HRV).

  • Oxygen and carbon dioxide exchange becomes more efficient.

  • Stress hormones like cortisol decrease, while feelings of calm and focus increase.

  • The brain’s emotional centers (like the amygdala) quiet down, improving mood regulation.

    🧘🏾‍♀️ Basic Practice

  • Sit or lie comfortably with your spine straight.

  • Inhale through your nose for a count of 5 or 6 seconds.

  • Exhale through your nose or mouth for a count of 5 or 6 seconds.

  • Continue for 5–10 minutes (or longer if desired).

  • Focus on the gentle rise and fall of your belly or chest.

💛 Benefits

  • Reduces anxiety, panic, and depressive symptoms

  • Improves sleep and emotional balance

  • Supports blood pressure regulation

  • Increases clarity, presence, and connection to the body

     Lately, I’ve been practicing this simple yet powerful breathing technique called coherent breathing — slow, steady breathing at about 5–6 breaths per minute.

    Every time I sit still and breathe in this rhythm, I notice something interesting… I start to yawn a few times.
    At first, I thought it meant I was tired, but I’ve learned it’s actually a sign that my nervous system is unwinding and my body is releasing tension.

    Each yawn feels like a quiet “thank you” from my body — like it’s saying, “I’m finally safe enough to relax.”

    This practice has been helping me calm anxious thoughts, refocus, and feel more grounded in my faith and body.
    It reminds me that peace isn’t found in rushing — it’s found in rhythm, in the breath God gave us.

    🕊️ If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed or disconnected, I invite you to try this:

  • Inhale through your nose for 5–6 seconds

  • Exhale through your nose or mouth for 5–6 seconds

  • Continue for a few minutes and notice what shifts inside

Don’t worry if you yawn, sigh, or even tear up — that’s your body releasing what it no longer needs.
Breathe gently, breathe faithfully, and let your body remember how to rest. 💛

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