Holding It In Makes You Sick: The Hidden Cost

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  Many of us grow up learning to “be strong,” “push through,” or “keep it together.” But what we rarely talk about is the weight that comes with carrying emotions we never release. Anger. Bitterness. Jealousy. Resentment. Unforgiveness. Hidden hurt. Silent disappointment. These emotions don’t stay neatly tucked away in the heart. The body feels them. The mind reacts to them. And the soul holds them like unspoken stories. The Body Keeps the Score When we bottle up hard emotions, the body shifts into a subtle form of stress response. Even if we smile on the outside, our inside is tightening, guarding, bracing. Over time, suppressed emotions can contribute to: Chronic tension Anxiety and irritability Fatigue and sleep issues High blood pressure Weakened immune system Digestive issues Emotional numbness or shutdown What stays unspoken becomes stored. And what stays stored eventually surfaces — often through the body. Spiritual Truth: God Never Designed Us to...

Understanding Emotional Overload

 


Have you ever found yourself suddenly silent, tired, or “checked out” after being around someone expressing intense anger or frustration?
You’re not overreacting — your body is responding.

Being around a high level of anger can feel like an attack on your body, even when it’s not directed at you. Your nervous system recognizes that intensity and immediately shifts into protection mode.
That “shutdown” feeling isn’t weakness — it’s your body saying,

“This is too much right now. I need safety.”

 What’s Happening Inside You

When your system senses danger — even emotional or energetic — it triggers the freeze or shutdown response.
Your heart rate may slow down, your breathing becomes shallow, and you might feel disconnected or foggy.
This is the body’s natural attempt to keep you safe when it doesn’t know how to fight or flee.

The good news? You can gently guide yourself back into calm.

 Gentle Ways to Reground Yourself

1. Grounding Touch
Place your hand over your heart or chest and take a slow, steady breath.
Let your body feel the warmth of your touch. Whisper to yourself:

“I am safe right now.”

2. Shake It Off
Move your arms, hands, and legs — even a gentle stretch helps.
This discharges the leftover energy your body absorbed.

3. Safe Sound
Once the environment feels calmer, listen to soothing music, a prayer, or nature sounds.
Let peaceful frequencies remind your body it can rest again.

4. Express It
Journal or record a quick voice note about what happened.
You’re not dwelling — you’re releasing what got stuck.

 In Times of Uncertainty

The world can feel overwhelming right now.
People are frustrated, systems are strained, and emotions are running high.
But we are not powerless — we can choose calm in the chaos.

Peace doesn’t mean the world stops shaking.
It means you’ve learned to stay steady within the shaking.
Through faith, breath, and awareness, you can return to safety — one moment at a time.

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.” — Isaiah 26:3

 Closing Reflection

If you’ve felt shut down or emotionally drained after being around tension, don’t shame yourself.
Your body’s wisdom is sacred.
Treat it gently.
Pray. Breathe. Reground.
And remember — you are not alone.

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