Holding It In Makes You Sick: The Hidden Cost

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  Many of us grow up learning to “be strong,” “push through,” or “keep it together.” But what we rarely talk about is the weight that comes with carrying emotions we never release. Anger. Bitterness. Jealousy. Resentment. Unforgiveness. Hidden hurt. Silent disappointment. These emotions don’t stay neatly tucked away in the heart. The body feels them. The mind reacts to them. And the soul holds them like unspoken stories. The Body Keeps the Score When we bottle up hard emotions, the body shifts into a subtle form of stress response. Even if we smile on the outside, our inside is tightening, guarding, bracing. Over time, suppressed emotions can contribute to: Chronic tension Anxiety and irritability Fatigue and sleep issues High blood pressure Weakened immune system Digestive issues Emotional numbness or shutdown What stays unspoken becomes stored. And what stays stored eventually surfaces — often through the body. Spiritual Truth: God Never Designed Us to...

It’s Not Personal, It’s Spiritual

 


We live in a world that is both spiritual and physical. Most of us go about our days fully engaged with what we can see, touch, and experience through our senses—but there is another realm, just as real, if not more real, that often goes unnoticed. The spiritual world cannot be grasped with our hands or seen with our eyes, yet its presence is powerful, constant, and undeniable.

I believe the spiritual realm shapes the physical, not the other way around. That’s why feeding our spirit matters more than we realize. Just as we eat food to strengthen our bodies, we must be intentional about what we feed our spirit—what we meditate on, what we listen to, who we surround ourselves with, and how often we connect with God. The spiritual life doesn’t just grow by default—it grows by design.

Becoming spiritually aware makes us stronger. It gives us clarity, peace, and discernment in a chaotic world. But that kind of awareness comes with a cost: letting go. We often hold tightly to people, places, and things that feel familiar, but not everything we’re connected to is meant to follow us into our next season.

This isn’t about being cold or cutting people off with bitterness. It’s about understanding that some things are spiritual, not personal. Sometimes the shift in your life is a divine redirection. Sometimes the detachment is necessary for your elevation. Growth requires release. Healing requires surrender.

So today, if you feel the pull to go deeper spiritually—follow it. Be intentional. Be aware. Your spirit is calling you to rise. Let it.

Scriptures:  

Romans 8:5-6 (NIV)
“Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.”
Galatians 5:16 (ESV)
“But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”
Ephesians 6:12 (NIV)
“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”

Affirmations: I choose to feed my spirit and walk in alignment with God.
I release anything that no longer serves my spiritual growth.

I am growing in wisdom, peace, and divine awareness

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